Friday, December 6, 2013

The Personal Side of Bias, Prejudice, and Oppression


   When I lived in Pooler, GA, a small town outside of Savannah, GA, I remember living in an all white neighborhood. I loved it to a certain extent, but I hated being the only African American student in the neighborhood. I remember one night, a group of Caucasian males set a tree on fire across the street from my house and sent the fire department to my house. If it wasn't for my aunt and uncle being home, proving that I was in the house, I would have been charged with arson and taking into juvenile detention. Another incident I remember was riding the bus to school and being the only African American on the bus. My bus driver put my seat all the way in the back of the bus and I truly got offended. I took that as an insult because they way she did it bring me back to segregation days. I remember my guardians storming into the school wanting answers on why I was being mistreated on the bus due to my race. My aunt received her answers and the school no longer bothered me for the rest of the year.

    The prejudice I went through throughout my eighth grade year diminish equity in the sense of freedom of speech, because every time I tried to tell the bus driver my feelings she would tell me to shut up and sit down, the fact that the fire department though I set the tree on fire due to my race, and the type of prejudice the down showed towards African American people. There were not too many African American people living in the down due to prejudice type of town it was. Many people would rather live outside that town then inside that town.
 This incident brought hurt, anger, hatred to my heart against white Americans. I hated talking to Caucasian people, I did not like them looking at me, and I ended up hating the school I attended. It took for me to change my heart in my older years to not have hatred in my heart because all Caucasians are not that way. I had to learn how to forgive those who hurt me and let the lord handle my battles. I am more happier today because I no longer have that grudge in my heart against different race because of what one person did to me. In order to change this incident into an opportunity for greater equity, the bus driver and Caucasian children would have had to change their ways . They were the cause of the hurt and pain and if they wouldn't have done what they did, the opportunity for greater equity would have still been there.  

4 comments:

  1. Hi Ashley,
    I enjoyed reading you post although it made me sad. I am sorry for the things you went through during your childhood. Thanks for sharing.
    Amy

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  2. Hi Ashley
    That kind of stuff happens all the time to African American people, it is good that you had people in your life that backed you up. Good Post!
    LaRoyia

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  3. Ashley,
    I am sorry to hear that you had such a horrible experience while growing up. I wish that I could say that prejudice due to race is starting to disappear, but it's not. My husband's grandmother is very racist because one African American shot and killed her brother. She has the mindset that all people of that race are just as guilty as that one person and I think it is wrong. It truly saddens me that people cannot move beyond the differences among us. Thank you for sharing your story!
    Tiffany

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  4. Ashley,
    I am so sorry you faced prejudice and racism so directly as a young person.

    I had a close African American friend in Jr. High. One day we were walking from the school to the track field for track practice. A group of boys in front of us were throwing rocks at a large mailbox outside someone's home. A man came out of the house as we walked by together. He accused my friend of throwing the rocks. She said, "Why do you think it was me? Because I'm a girl?" That threw him off! Of course he and I both thought she was going to say, "because I am black?" and she didn't! When she said that, it really drove home to me how idiotic those type of prejudice judgments can be. When she switched it up on him like that I thought she must be the most genius person on earth.

    By the way- he was so flustered that he waved us away and went back in his house. :)

    Lisa

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